It is our nature to resist change…it makes us uncomfortable, we don’t like changes. We like being in our “Comfort Zone”, yet as Peter Drucker wrote, “We live in an Age of Discontinuity”.
Just when you thought you knew where things were headed, real estate values increasing year after year, low gas prices…buy that big comfortable SUV, buy the investment condo, plan the European trip…BANG! Sub-prime implosion, unemployment headed to 10%, money tightens, the dollar decreases in value. Stress levels up? Well welcome to the 21st Century…Shift Happens.
My Grandfather was born in 1888. When he was growing up the primary mode of transportation was the horse and buggy as it was for thousands of years before. Now just imagine the changes that he experienced in his lifetime. First came the gas powered engine and the automobile which impacted everything in the next century. Then he saw the airplane evolve from Kitty Hawk to huge 727’s in the sky. In his lifetime he witnessed our putting a man on the moon, which had been described only in fiction. He saw the US evolve from a farm nation to an industrial economy. People began moving to the West and the Sunshine States, several major wars fought on a worldwide scale. All of this in one lifetime.
It is not just change but the rate of change. Alvin Toffler describes this in “Future Shock”http://www.amazon.com/Future-Shock-Alvin-Toffler/dp/0553277375 as “an abrupt collision with the future.” Change is occurring so quickly, in fact, that we no longer have the luxury of adapting to it gradually. My Grandfather experienced change, however the events were occurring over a period of time. We now experience massive shifts in but a few months, the speed is accelerating.
To deal effectively with change you must learn how to embrace it. It begins with acceptance. Most people believe that if they ignore change, it won’t happen. That if they ignore change, somehow time will turn back to the way things were…the way it used to be. Well that is not going to happen. The most valuable quality you can develop is flexibility. You must form the habit of remaining open-minded and adaptable to new information and circumstances. When things go wrong and problems come up, as they often do, instead of becoming upset and frustrated, look for the benefit that is always contained in the change.
Charles Darwin said, “It’s not the most intelligent of the species that survives the longest; it’s the most adaptable.”
When you have a clear vision of where you’re going and what you want to accomplish, you develop resilience. You develop a positive attitude and you have goals. Your ability to function with calmness, clarity, and quiet assurance in every situation will determine your success in times of change more than anything else. You have to accept change, improve on it, and then move on to the next situation. The results you can achieve are unlimited.
“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” George Eliot